Potential Harms FWB Relationships Will Do to You

On the face of it, both people in a FWB relationship can benefit from this casual relationship. Because you two are just friends who want to gain benefits, you will not feel heartbroken for each other's words and deeds. In this relationship, you can find your friends whenever you want to have sex. However, one of the problems that people often neglect is that people are likely to involve their feelings. When this happens, things get very complicated. Of course, if you can control your emotions and treat him as a sexual partner, this is the best. But believe me, even worse than you start to realize that you've fallen in love with your FWB, your admiration for him won't get any response.

Before you decide to join such a friends with benefits relationship, you need to think about the benefits and disadvantages of this event. If this NSA relationship will bring you a lot of negative effects, then personally, I don't think you need to exchange these precious things for a short-term relationship. In any case, the partner you choose should be the same as the person you originally expected. Although this kind of relationship is full of temptation for people, it is undeniable that this relationship is also dangerous. It will not only bring you benefits, but also bring you many disadvantages. Here are a lot of negative effects that a FWB relationship may have on you.

1. The possible result of FWB relationship does not meet the expectation

In the past, people had communication and exchange with each other in mind. When two people's hearts are close together, they will allow themselves to have close physical contact with each other. But in a FWB relationship, it's not like this. In this relationship, two people directly skip and must skip the stage of spiritual communication, and then directly have physical close contact with another person. But physical contact and spiritual dependence are interrelated. The more physical contact you have, the more spiritual dependence you have on each other. However, this result is not consistent with your original intention of joining an NSA relationship. A lot of people will be hurt because of this.

2. You may fall in love with your friends

At some point, one of you may be in love with the other person. Here we will discuss the two situations respectively. The first is that another person doesn't want to upgrade the relationship. Then the result will undoubtedly be that this person will feel heartbroken and the relationship will end. The second is that you two have the same idea, and then you two develop this NSA relationship into a serious dating relationship. But the chances of the latter are small. Even if you make rules before you start, your feelings are not limited by them. These will become meaningless. Over time, you are likely to fall in love with your friends. Definitely, it is a bad result.